DJ ruined their wedding because they hired the wrong DJ.
The DJ can make or break it. Even the venues tell us this.
Your DJ SHOULD be the most impactful vendor you hire. They should create the look and feel, with lighting and sound, an MC voice and skill to run your entire wedding day, take requests, play all your special songs with class and create an emotional connection with every single guest. We have a list of 40 things you need to consider when hiring a DJ. It’s just that big a part of your event, especially for a wedding.
I googled DJ Ruined My Wedding and it’s more common than you may know.
Below is a letter we got from a couple who didn’t even hire us! I’m not making this up. I was as shocked as you will be, when you read what they wrote after their wedding. The wrong DJ ruined their wedding.
Please let us help you, with our full suite of professional wedding services, to have a better wedding, from our officiating with elements other officiants don’t bother to offer, award winning DJ, 5-star award winning MC, and the ultimate wedding planning strategy, for the most impactful, exciting and memorable wedding for all the right reasons.
Dear Ron,
I will make this blunt as possible. We should have hired you for our wedding. Why we did not will go down as one of the worst mistakes my wife and I have made so far as a couple.
We saw you at 2 weddings, and read all your testimonials. We met with you for coffee (that you paid for), you discussed strategies to make our wedding a success, and you offered lots of assistance via email. Yet we didn’t book with you, and its with tremendous regret that I even have to type this email. I should be happy. I should be basking in the glow of a successful wedding reception.
Why didn’t we book with you? The venue provided a DJ, that’s why. But, we should have heeded your advice. You said that we have a right to meet with our DJ Entertainer. We called several times to arrange a meeting. We finally got a meeting, via Skype. I thought at the time since we were spending a lot of money we deserve better. But, fine, we took the meeting, met with our DJ and we felt assured we would have been taken care of. However, we should have known that when the DJ company at this venue didn’t arrive at their menu tastings, that something was up.
Of course, the day of the wedding, no DJ arrived for our ceremony, and the songs we selected were obviously not played.
Of course, another DJ arrived late into our cocktail hour and was NOT the DJ we talked to.
Of course, the DJ said he was booked for this wedding for several months now.
Of course, the DJs dress code was khaki pants, black running shoes, and a black vest over a white shirt.
Of course, our first song was not the one we selected.
Did you know that you were a topic of conversation during our first dance? I think that no words should be spoken during the first dance, unless it’s “I love you”. Not discussing how awful the DJ is, and how we can contact you in order to save our wedding.
Of course, you were booked. I will bet that couple had a flawless wedding.
Of course, our DJ drank on the job, (something you said you would never do), hit on one of our bridesmaids, (something you said you would never do) and had the goddamn GALL to tell us he will do the kissing game after he finished eating. (Something I know you would never do).
Of course, the DJ played songs we asked NOT to be played, and of course, he left several times to smoke cigarettes.
I apologize for not hiring you, I apologize for not heeding your warnings, I apologize for wasting your time.
We should have hired you. Of course. We are going to recommend you heavily, of course, so this never happens again to any of our friends and family. We should have gone with our gut instinct and hired you right from the beginning. My wife and I are very embarrassed. I am sorry. We learned the hard way next time, hire somebody that you have seen, hire somebody that is a professional company with affiliation with an association.
Sincerely
The regretful “Jack and Jill”
(actual names changed to respect and protect their real identity).
This is only one of many stories of wedding gone wrong, all based on hiring the wrong DJ and the DJ ruined their wedding. Sadly, all the other elements, the whole investment was impacted.
Are we the right DJ for you? It starts with a personalized phone call, to hear what you want and express the extent to which we can contribute to your entire wedding, in ways no other vendor can, cares to or will. Why not? It’s not their concern, so long as you hire their service category. I care about your entire wedding, have my finger on the pulse of the industry and know more than most vendors in the industry, and care more because it’s in my nature to care. My parents taught me to do my best, no matter what, never give up and never settle for second best. I apply these life teachings to my adult life and my business to create the best wedding experience, for one lovely couple at a time. If you want, and I believe you deserve, an epic wedding, beyond anything you have ever seen, or that any other DJ company can provide, let me bring all my 40 years of experience to bear, and you will be thrilled with the results. I promise. Call me directly at 647 528 3548 (DJ4U) and let’s talk about your wedding and how it can be the best wedding ever. Yours. Period.